**ANNOUNCEMENT**

Announcement Time

Hi guys, just a small announcement here.

In light of writing blog posts every day for 27 days, I’ve decided to cut back and experiment a little, see if it makes a difference with the content I give you guys, and if you like it more. From now on I’ll be posting Mondays, Wednesday’s, Friday’s, and Sunday’s. And of course the usual Thursday Vlog will be posted, with a blog post linked to the video to go with it.

Thank you so much to everyone that reads, likes, shares, and comments on my blogs and vlogs. It truly does mean a lot, and I hope I can keep providing great content for you.

From,

Sophie-L x.

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Boy do I need this – Motivation Monday

Hey folks, how ya been?

So I’m aware that I haven’t posted anything since the 27th, and first off let me just give a huge apology to those of you that were expecting a post on this blog the last three days and didn’t get one. However the last three days I just needed a time out. Which I talked about previously a lot, before making this post.

What better a time to talk about this than on Motivation Monday?

Basically my mood kind of dipped, and I’ve been super paranoid about everything and everyone. So I just needed to take a step back, and focus on me for a few days. And said to myself “starting Monday, I’m going to BOSS this.”

So Sunday night, was unplanned and unexpected. After having a Skype chat and game with the Squad, I went to bed and just couldn’t sleep…again. When it came to Monday morning, I did not get up…until 2 hours after my bus was due. Quite obviously, I missed my bus. Which meant I had no transport to get into college without walking for 2 hours to get there, or using a service that overcharged and that I can’t afford.

I DIDN’T LET THAT STOP ME THOUGH.

With the true name of Motivation Monday in mind, I peeled myself out of my duvet and warmth, got some food, and got changed, then sat myself in the office (hence forth known as the ‘cave’) and have done 5 hours plus work on college. Which is MORE than what I would’ve done if I had actually gone to college.

The point of this blog post is, no matter what state of mind you’re in. It’s temporary. If you want to, and you work on it, you can pull yourself out of whatever slump you’re in. No matter how big or how small it is.

You got this.

 

 

 

 

New Header for the site!!

Omg! New header!! Do we all like it??

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For various reasons I had to take a long term break from blogging, but I am back!!! We’re hitting off the week with this introductory post, which is a basic “Hello, hi, this is me.”

So Hello, Hi, this is me.

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I’m Sophie, I’m a lover of fandoms, someone who is known to get obsessed over TV story lines, maybe a bit too much, so much so she ends up recreating and writing own versions of the shows in her head and eventually onto paper. I am also a huge self-motivator, I suffer with mild-depression, anxiety, and I have massive stress issues when it comes to getting things done – basically, narrow it down, I’m a typical barrel of laughs.

I believe in kindness, the Winchester’s, and being random. And that’s basically me in a nutshell, I hope you stick around to read my musings, and ramblings x.

Look At Your Balls – Snowballs! They Make You a Better Person.

As most of you know, my week off work didn’t exactly go to plan. A string of drama unfolded which led to some quick change in plans, and now I’m back at home tonight babysitting the dog because he doesn’t like fireworks, and that’s after catching up with my beautiful best friend who always makes me feel ten times better.

Usually in situations where everyday seems like a new thing to add to the drama, I do this thing that my mum (who is a life coach, I can’t remember if I’ve mentioned that before) calls ‘Snowballing’. Where with each new thing/bad moment that happens, no matter how small or how big, I add it to the huge pile of snow that has already happened, and will continue to roll it, adding new layers and layers of bad stuff that’s happening, or has happened in the past, until it’s this massive snowball that I can’t push or shove any further…and then I just break.

Today more drama happened, and in the past I’d add it to my Snowball, but something different clicked in my brain. Today I realized that I’m a lot stronger than I give myself credit for. And I don’t mean to entirely float my own boat here, because I feel it just needs to be said. It’s healthy to like something about yourself. I could’ve added to my Snowball but today I’m not, I’m just shaking my head and reminding myself to relax, reminding myself of what I’ve accomplished with my personal development and how I don’t want to ruin that.

I believe that learning this, is all about learning how to react healthily to situations in life. I’m not bottling as many emotions up, I’m not shrugging it off completely and ignoring the situation. I’m letting each layer of snow on my Snowball melt and be in a puddle around me. If you’re going through a rough time today, I want you to melt your Snowball, or just smash it, break it into tiny pieces and see that each different scenario doesn’t have to add up to one big one. It may seem like it does, but it doesn’t. If you’ve dealt with something and it’s now in the past, leave it in the past where it belongs. You’ve learnt the lesson, keep the lesson, and carry that positive reinforcement with you instead.

For a Saturday, this isn’t as upbeat a post, I realize. Tomorrow I’ll try to make a more upbeat one! I’m home now, I have my wi-fi, my music, and my twitter. YAY!

I hope you’re all having fabulous weekends!! Until next time, catch ya later Bromigo’s x.

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